Cute story...

This story about a kindergartener made me laugh out loud.

TEMPLE MALL TO ADD NEW CHILDREN’S PLAY AREA THIS HOLIDAY

Temple Mall partners with Scott & White Children’s Hospital and Temple Bottling Company

to open a children’s play area at center court

Temple, Texas –Temple Mall is excited to announce that they will open a 1,000 square foot Texas themed children’s soft play area and Temple Mall Kid’s Court at center court, where customer service is currently located. The Temple Mall Kid’s Court and soft play area is scheduled to open by early December for the busy holiday season. The play area will include large Texas themed foam elements, including a large climb-on bull, barrel slide and tunnel, hay bale climb and crawl thru, cactus bowl and barrels and rope climb and crawl thru.

The Temple Mall Kid’s Court will offer weekly and monthly children’s events, Boobaloo Kid’s Club activities, have register to win opportunities, games and much more. In addition, the Kid’s Court will be a free WiFi “hot spot” for those that need email capabilities.

Temple Mall partnered with Scott & White Children’s Hospital and Temple Bottling Company to help make this wonderful amenity available to the Temple Community. Scott & White will be hosting events regularly at the soft play area as well as brand and promote specific programs directly at the play area and throughout the mall.

Temple Bottling Company will have two Dr. Pepper vending units at the soft play area for thirsty parents and their children. In addition, they will host various tasting events and brand their Dr. Pepper products in and around the play area.

“We are so excited to be able to offer our customers this great amenity. We will be the only mall to offer a soft play area between Temple and Austin. The Temple Mall Kid’s Court will be a place parents can bring their children to play and have fun. Families can spend the entire day at Temple Mall and enjoy a day of shopping, eating, watching a movie and now playing in the new Kid’s Court,” stated Kymberley Scalia, Corporate Director of Marketing for Coyote Management, L.P., which owns Temple Mall.

Temple Mall, opened in 1976, is a single-level, 555,400 square foot enclosed regional mall located in Temple, Texas. Three traditional department stores, Dillard’s, Macy’s, and JCPenney, anchor the Temple Mall which also includes a 16-screen Premiere Cinema and 60 specialty shops and restaurants. Temple Mall occupies a highly visible site in southern Temple at the intersection of Loop 363 and South 31^st St. It serves a primary population of over 149,000. To learn more, visit www.templemall.com.

Coyote Management, L.P. specializes in the acquisition, management and value enhancement activities of dominant regional shopping malls in secondary U.S. markets. Corporate offices are located at 16475 Dallas Parkway, Suite 250, Addison, Texas 75001. The principals of Coyote Management, L.P. are Michael E. Rulli, CEO and Robert D. Lee, President. Visit our website at www.coyotemanagement.com.

Not just another Monday...

Loved this post last month on Girl Talk, perfect for a manic Monday.

Expert Panel

What a great time we had yesterday with our expert panel. We are so glad to see all of you new ladies and hope you come back next month!

Here's a linked list of the favorite books from our panel members. The ones in italics are available at the Temple Public Library.

• The Bible, of course! If you don't have one, drop me a line and I have plenty I can give out!
• How To Really Love Your Child by Ross Campbell
• How To Talk So Kids Will Listen and Listen So Kids Will Talk and Siblings Without Rivalry by Adele Faber and Elaine Mazlish
• The Five Love Languages of Children by Gary Chapman and Ross Campbell
• Grace Based Parenting by Tim Kimmel
• The New Dare to Discipline, Bringing Up Boys, and Preparing for Adolescence by James Dobson
• Shepherding a Child's Heart and Instructing a Child's Heart by Tedd Tripp
  

The Best Thing You Can Give Your Kids

by Mitch Temple, reposted with permission from www.family.org

First let me say that, although I am a marriage and family therapist and have helped struggling parents for almost 20 years, and although we have three teens in the Temple household and my wife is an excellent mother, we do not have all the answers when it comes to raising kids! We thought we did, and then our kids turned into teenagers. I’m reminded of Mark Twain’s advice: when kids reach adolescence you should stick them in a barrel, nail the lid shut and cut them a breathing hole. When they turn 16, simply stop up the hole!

Though his recommendation is not to be taken seriously, many parents relate to Mr. Twain’s philosophy. When it comes to raising teenagers, we’re all in the same boat: we find ourselves questioning whether we are making the best decisions and doing the right things for our kids.

Of all the advice I’ve given to parents through the years about what is most important to provide for their kids, I think this is the best: The most important thing you can do for your kids (whether pre- or post-adolescence) is not giving them great advice, administering perfect discipline, being consistent 100 percent of the time, being their best friend, or even having the perfect “parade of homes” family. The best thing you can give your kids is the consistent, solid assurance that you love your spouse beyond a shadow of a doubt. Moms and Dads should consistently send the message that “although we’re not always perfect and we argue and hurt each other’s feelings from time to time, we are going to be here, together, for you.”

Today’s kids live in an ever-changing and insecure world. Sociologists tell us that kids’ fears are rapidly increasing, resulting in more behavior problems, depression and anxiety disorders. One of the major fears of school-aged children is that their parents will divorce. Many of these children are routinely exposed to negative news and unsettling change. They hear that their friends’ parents are splitting up or that their favorite celebrity is getting a divorce, and they wonder if their parents are next. Many children experience a “when, not if” type of anxiety on a daily basis, fearing their parents will be the next statistic.

Because of these uncertainties, your children need to know that you and your spouse love each other and are committed, permanently, to each other. Your kids need to know that you are going to stick it out even through the tough times. And that when you’re faced with problems you can’t overcome on you own, you will get the professional help you need to make it work. Kids need you to explain that love is more than feelings. You don’t need to tell them in these words, but your kids need to know that even if the magic is gone and you don’t feel great about your spouse, love means you’ll stick it out until you do.

If you’re not feeling great about your spouse, consider this: Many couples don’t feel “in love” anymore because they’ve stopped acting and thinking as if they’re in love. Think about it. You make friends by behaving in a friendly way. You feel close to a friend because you both act like friends. Your friendship grows because of this behavior and because of your commitment to the friendship. The same is true in marriage. If you don’t feel like you’re in love anymore, it may be because you’re not acting like you’re in love. Often, those feelings of in-loveness will return if you simply start behaving as if you’re in love. Behavior does affect feelings. Thinking affects feelings. Change your thinking and behavior, and you will change how you feel. Right thinking plus right behavior equals right feelings.

Think back to when you and your spouse first fell in love. Chances are you did things like expressing love regularly, focusing on the good in each other, putting the other first, overlooking mistakes, and saying “I’m sorry” even when you didn’t feel you were wrong. Marriages often deteriorate when partners forget to act and think the way they did when they were dating. If you find yourself in this situation, take heart: a better marriage can begin with you.

Most of the battles in marriage take place on the battlefields of our minds. When one person decides that a marriage is worth saving and transforming, real change can occur. You can focus all day long on the faults of your spouse. However, your marriage will begin to transform and become strong only when you commit to making it better — even if your spouse isn’t on the same page yet. Part of the marriage journey is honoring your commitment to each other for life — for better or worse, richer or poorer, in sickness and health, “till death do we part” — and your kids need to know you’re going to do just that.

So, instead of giving your children costly material trinkets — which marketers tout as “must haves” — give them what every child really needs: the assurance that Mom and Dad are in this for the long haul. Do whatever it takes to make your marriage thrive: swallow your pride, go to counseling or a marriage retreat, give up a hobby, throw the TV in the dumpster. . . whatever! Just do it. Your kids will thank you.